Two Kids and a Laptop: My Soft Mom rebrand Starts Now!

I never imagined I’d be introducing myself from the glow of a laptop screen, hair in a loose bun, baby monitor buzzing beside me, and a 5-year-old’s artwork taped across my walls — but here we are.

This space was born somewhere between feedings, late-night overthinking, and quiet moments of clarity that said, “You can want more without rushing it. You can soften without giving up.”

Hi, I’m Kira.
I’m a mom of two boys, navigating this beautifully chaotic chapter of motherhood — one that’s less about survival mode and more about reclamation. Reclaiming my peace. My goals. My softness. My voice.

After years of putting my dreams on the shelf, I decided to return to school for the degree I always wanted — cybersecurity. Yep, I’m learning to break into a male-dominated tech field while sleep training a baby. It’s as wild as it sounds.
At the same time, I’m building this blog — not because I have all the answers, but because I want to document what it looks like to grow, rest, fail, glow up, and try again… in real time.

Marriage after kids? It’s a story I’m still learning to write. I’ll be honest here — about the growing pains, the softness I’m trying to cultivate in our partnership, and how love shifts when everyone’s tired and touched-out.
This is a space where I get to tell the truth, even when it’s messy.

If you’re a mom rediscovering herself in between laundry and logins — this blog is for you.
If you’re juggling babies and big dreams, craving a little more room to just be, I hope you feel at home here.

I don’t know exactly where this road leads. But I do know this:
I’m no longer hustling to prove anything.
I’m learning to live softer, dream louder, and show up — even when I don’t have it all figured out.

Let’s grow through this together.

See you in the next post,
Kira 🤎
Two Kids and a Laptop